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How To Manifest A Boyfriend in 7 Simple Steps

This article will teach you how to manifest a boyfriend in seven easy steps.

You can go from sad and lonely while all your friends are in a relationship to glad and excited that you’re no longer the third wheel when you go out!

It does take a little bit of work and a lot of faith in yourself.

But don’t worry, manifesting a loving relationship is a lot easier than you think!

There are lots of people who’ve manifested their ideal boyfriend before you, and by the end of this blog post, you’ll have a solid understanding of how and why this process works.

So, if you’re ready, here are the seven steps to manifest a healthy relationship with a loving boyfriend.

 

1- Connect to universal energy

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The first thing you have to do is establish a connection to universal magnetic energy.

This is critical if you plan to ask the universe for help!

You’d be surprised by how many people miss this step, then wonder why their dream relationship never manifests (or, they wind up in relationships with the WRONG GUYS.)

The truth is that you already are connected to the universe.

After all, you are part of the universe.

But, most likely, you have one or more blockages standing in between you and manifesting your perfect match.

And lucky for you, there’s a fast, simple solution that will solve this problem fast!

Get your free numerology reading!

Once you understand the information that was coded into your energy profile at your time of birth, you’ll understand everything that has gone wrong up until now, why it’s gone wrong, and how to fix it.

But not only that…

The universe knows who is paying attention and who isn’t.

Yep… it’s true…

Just by opening your report, you’re sending a strong signal to the universe that says “I’m here, I’m listening, and I’m willing to follow the path laid out for me!”

It’s one of the most powerful things you can do to set yourself up not just for success this time but for success the rest of your life!

Make sure you don’t mess up at the very first step like most people do.

Get your reading free.

It’s the most important step of the whole process.

(You’ll see!)

 

2- Release the past

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Once you’ve connected to universal energy, you need to release any old baggage, ties to toxic exes, or any other negative energy that is getting in your way.

Remember, energy flows where attention goes!

So you need to make sure that the only energy flowing through your body right now matches the vibrational frequency of positive and healthy things.

If you’re still carrying around baggage from past relationships or a bad breakup, you’ll need to put yourself on a brighter path for romance now. 

You don’t want to be spending all your energy on that old stuff instead of asking for what you want!

And if you think about it…

It doesn’t make any sense, does it?

I mean, logically, you have to focus on what you want to get it.

So one of the quickest ways to release negative energy and beliefs is to sit yourself down and make a list of all the exes who have done you wrong.

Every bad relationship issue you’ve had in the past that has a negative pull to it, write it down.

Then, one by one, you get into the feeling of the thing (yes it feels yucky but it’s okay), then you say, out loud, “thank you, I forgive you, I’m sorry, and I love you.”

Then cross it out.

By doing this you’re acknowledging the feeling but actively choosing to release it into the past so you can free up energy for better things.

This step means that you aren’t carrying around the yucky old energy, and it also means that you’re not attracting anyone into your life who would do something like that to you.

When you get done with this step, take a moment to enjoy the fact that you’ve just released all of that yuck!

Then, move on to the next step.

 

3- Think about your dream boyfriend

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If you don’t know what it is that you want, how can the universe?

Allow yourself to think about the type of boyfriend you want to manifest, but also how you want the relationship to feel.

Write down his demographic profile, sure, but go deeper than that.

What do those things mean to you.

If you want someone who is 6-feet tall, that’s fine, but why?

Does a taller boyfriend make you feel more secure?

If you want someone who makes a lot of money, why?

Do you feel like maybe he has enough resources to support you and a family one day?

Think about what you want and why.

This is not just a list of traits, but an opportunity for you to explore the deeper meaning behind it all.

If you’re having trouble doing this, try asking yourself questions like:

  • How do I feel when I’m with him?
  • What does he make me think about?
  • Do I feel appreciated and respected?
  • Do I feel important and special?

You can also think about how you want the relationship to feel.

  • Do you want to feel safe and secure?
  • Do you want to have a deep sense of intimacy?
  • Or maybe just fun and adventure?

These feelings are what will help guide your dreams so they manifest, as you will see in the upcoming steps.

 

4- Identify & clear limiting beliefs

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This step is all about stopping the things that are holding you back from manifesting your dream relationship.

When it comes to limiting beliefs, there are two types: internal and external.

Let’s start with the easy one first…

Internally, what do you believe about yourself?

Do you believe that you’re not worthy of love?

You may have a fear of being hurt or abandoned, so you’re limiting yourself from getting what you want.

Take your time to ask yourself some questions and write down whatever comes up.

Now, let’s get rid of the external ones…

This one is a little harder because limiting beliefs from childhood often feel “natural”.

Because you grew up believing them, it can be hard to identify them.

 

So here are some questions you can ask yourself:

  • When did I first come across this belief?
  • Who told me that?
  • What was I doing when it happened?
  • Why did I believe what they told me at the time?
  • And how does this belief make my life worse now?

Once you have the answers to these questions, you can take some time to reflect on why you’ve been holding onto this belief for so long.

You may have carried it around your whole life and just forgotten that you did, or perhaps it’s new and something that you need to change.

Whatever the case may be, you want to acknowledge these beliefs, look for any evidence that they’re not true, and that will help you clear them.

 

5- Ask for what you want

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Now that you’ve released the past (including any old relationships) and cleared your limiting beliefs, ask the universe to send what you’re looking for right now.

Put it out into the universe however you’d like, write it down in a scripting letter, make a vision board, try the 369 method

Your method doesn’t really matter, especially because you’ve already done the important work in the steps before!

You do have to pick some method, but almost any method you choose at this point will send your intention up to be manifested.

Just ask for what you want, and know that it’s on its way.

 

6- Act “as if”

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Now that you’ve asked for what you want, act “as if” it has already happened… acts as if things are perfect in your love life right now.

Keep doing what you’re doing, but from a place of “already”.

If you’ve been single for a long time, it would be tough to make yourself imagine that your dream guy has already asked you out.

But if you do things as if he has, and imagine how fun it is to go on this date with him.

Prep your appearance so that you feel as attractive as you would on a date.

Clear space in your life for love to enter.

Say “yes” to love in all forms.

Keep the faith and see things through this lens, and you will be manifesting perfection.

 

7- Surrender to love

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Once again, remember that it’s not about forcing things into your life or trying to make them happen.

Just let go and “be”.

Allow the universe to do the work and trust that you’re doing everything that you need to be doing.

Surrender to love, and let it flow.

You’ve already done all of the hard work, so enjoy the ride!

 

Final thoughts

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Congrats on making it to the end of this article.

Hopefully, you feel some sense of relief that you’re on the right track and can see your dream relationship manifesting in some form.

You may not believe it’s happening as soon as you want, but trust that it will happen when it is supposed to.

Keep following the steps and keep checking back for new information on how to manifest a boyfriend!

Oh, and don’t forget to get your free numerology reading!

It really is the missing link to manifesting a boyfriend that almost EVERY girl misses…

Be different! 😉

 

 

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